Parashat Matot: The Power of Self Restriction
Parashat Matot opens with the laws of vows: "If a man vows a vow to the Lord or swears an oath to bind himself by a pledge, he shall not break his word; he shall do according to all that proceeds out of his mouth." The essential role of a vow is to allow an individual to prohibit themselves from enjoying something otherwise permissible. This raises a question: Why would a person choose to forbid themselves something that the Torah permits and restrict himself with a vow?
When a person is dominated by their evil inclination and lacks the self-control to master their desires, a vow becomes a spiritual shield. By swearing an oath, they forcefully prohibit the very material object to which they are enslaved. In such an unrefined state, not only is the person incapable of elevating that specific spark of creation,…


Love the commentary on vows.